The Older The Better? Why Ladies Prefer Older Men

Age is just a number?? I don’t think so. Actually I strongly disagree. It is true that wisdom is not a product of age but it can strongly be argued that maturity is with the exception of a peculiar few. King Solomon had wisdom because as a boy he was taught what to ask and crave for. Even  as a boy he was already full of wisdom. How else would he have been able to manage a thousand women? lol

You see, the thing with men of these days is they are not done being trained or even trained at all before they start looking for who to harbor. They listen more to their agro than their minds. They don’t know to ask questions or even the kind of questions to ask. This can be fun and at the same time annoying. But at the end of the day, no mature woman wishes to be stuck with an immature man.

Before we get to the matter of the day, let me explicitly point out that insecurity and immaturity are not always a factor of age. I have met men in their  late 30’s and early 40’s who character display Is nothing to write home about, vice versa.

Today we will be looking at the reasons girls prefer older men anyways. Because it is a given that we do prefer older men. Not necessarily the sugar-daddy kinda older, but even THAT suffices sometimes. Lol.

One of the primary reason is embedded in psychology, this attraction basically develops when  girl grows up without a father or have what we call daddy issues. So what is  it exactly that the older male possesses that the under 30’s male lack???

Lets get right to it.

  • Confidence: You see, the older a man is, the more likely it is that he has seen it all, been over the insecurity stage. Yes, this is a very annoying stage, an insecure man is not attractive at all, The obsession and controlling tendencies are a huge turn off. But a mature man has discovered and defined himself, and with this comes a strong sense of knowing who he is and what he wants.
  • Knowledgeable: Older men are mostly vast in knowledge, at least they know a little about everything. And women find that quite endearing. A man who can teach you something about anything at all.
  • Communication: An older man with his years of experience have come to fully understand the essence of good communication. A man who is not going to blank on you or shy away when things get heated up. This kind of man is priceless.
  • Established And Sophisticated: With age and experience on his side, the older male has learned and established relationships and high contacts that sometimes can take you places. He has discovered what works for him in fashion and style and therefore have established a signature style. Yes! We love men with good sense of style.
  • Sexy and Extremely good in Bed: So with all the years of experience, most men start as young as 14-16, so the older they get , the better they become. They have come to learn what works for different kind of women and what doesn’t. The older guy is no longer in a hurry to spit it out, hes about your pleasure and needs now. This isn’t all inclusive though. Lol, this is because while some men get better with age, some others just get weaker.
  • Not obsessed or Stuck on You: Yes we love a man who can express his emotions but has 100% control over them, tell us just how much he craves our presence not just our bodies. But still we like it more when a man can give us space to breathe with the confidence that he’s not off chasing some other babe. Or stalking you in guise of chasing away other guys. The peace of mind that comes with knowing he’s got a life, a job, a business, nothing can easily excite him or impress him, this feeling is just priceless.


To Be Continued…..

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  1. Good day,

    The older one gets the more matured one becomes appears to be is subjective to a lot of other factors too.
    I have seen instances where you have men of over 40 years or almost 40 that behave like boys who can not take one decision without contacting their mothers for direction and suggestion such men are tied to the aprons of their mothers while there are boys who have behaved like men.
    Although i must almost totally agree with you that the present generation of upcoming men have more of boys with lesser and lesser of expected qualities expected of an ideal man ..

    However, what maybe qualities of a real man to one woman maybe something else to another lady.

    The woman must know from ab initio who is she searching for and what are the MUST BE QUALITIES of her ideal man and never stop till she meets him she must learn to ensure know within herself when he has arrived.

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